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 Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 6:09 am
Is it wrong in your eyes to be in love with someone who is more than five years older than you? This is something I really need to know, and I would be thankful to hear some views on this subject.
Thank you
Lesstatt 4laugh
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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 12:34 pm
NO! I do not think so at all, but it isn't 'socially acceptable' when your younger . . . How old are you and how old is s/he? the younger you are, the uneasier it gets because if you are only say 13, then if you start dating s/he can be accused of things. Unless you do no intend on anything happening, then it is merely a childish fantasy. I hope this helps, if not pm me for any further advice.
Always happy to help
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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 2:07 pm
Perhaps the better questions would be "why would you think it might be wrong," and "why does our opinion on your life choices (which we have no knowledge of) matter?"
If you want an example, I am 23, my boyfriend is 4 years older, and I am more mature than he is. xp
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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:55 pm
Laura.Is.My.Fairy.Princes NO! I do not think so at all, but it isn't 'socially acceptable' when your younger . . . How old are you and how old is s/he? the younger you are, the uneasier it gets because if you are only say 13, then if you start dating s/he can be accused of things. Unless you do no intend on anything happening, then it is merely a childish fantasy. I hope this helps, if not pm me for any further advice. Always happy to help x He's 24 and I'm 15, we've loved each other since I was 12 1/2, and some people may think its sad that he likes a minor, but in all reality he can basically have any girl he wants
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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:58 pm
KerriganBryce Perhaps the better questions would be "why would you think it might be wrong," and "why does our opinion on your life choices (which we have no knowledge of) matter?" If you want an example, I am 23, my boyfriend is 4 years older, and I am more mature than he is. xp Yeah I think those would be more proper
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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 9:03 am
Lesstatt Laura.Is.My.Fairy.Princes NO! I do not think so at all, but it isn't 'socially acceptable' when your younger . . . How old are you and how old is s/he? the younger you are, the uneasier it gets because if you are only say 13, then if you start dating s/he can be accused of things. Unless you do no intend on anything happening, then it is merely a childish fantasy. I hope this helps, if not pm me for any further advice. Always happy to help x He's 24 and I'm 15, we've loved each other since I was 12 1/2, and some people may think its sad that he likes a minor, but in all reality he can basically have any girl he wants Another way to look at the relationship is this: Does it work for you? If yes, great. Does it work for your partner (spouse/boyfriend/etc)? If yes, great. Is it consensual? If yes, great. Does it hurt you or anyone else? If no, great. Personally, I dont think its wrong at all. Im my eyes, love knows no age or age difference.
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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 10:59 pm
Alesha Eternal Lesstatt Laura.Is.My.Fairy.Princes NO! I do not think so at all, but it isn't 'socially acceptable' when your younger . . . How old are you and how old is s/he? the younger you are, the uneasier it gets because if you are only say 13, then if you start dating s/he can be accused of things. Unless you do no intend on anything happening, then it is merely a childish fantasy. I hope this helps, if not pm me for any further advice. Always happy to help x He's 24 and I'm 15, we've loved each other since I was 12 1/2, and some people may think its sad that he likes a minor, but in all reality he can basically have any girl he wants Another way to look at the relationship is this: Does it work for you? If yes, great. Does it work for your partner (spouse/boyfriend/etc)? If yes, great. Is it consensual? If yes, great. Does it hurt you or anyone else? If no, great. Personally, I dont think its wrong at all. Im my eyes, love knows no age or age difference. thanks, i just needed some reassurance
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Posted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 12:23 pm
Lesstatt Is it wrong in your eyes to be in love with someone who is more than five years older than you? This is something I really need to know, and I would be thankful to hear some views on this subject.
Thank you
Lesstatt 4laugh It should be fine morally as long as you don't have underage sex.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 4:03 am
Laura.Is.My.Fairy.Princes Lesstatt Is it wrong in your eyes to be in love with someone who is more than five years older than you? This is something I really need to know, and I would be thankful to hear some views on this subject.
Thank you
Lesstatt 4laugh It should be fine morally as long as you don't have underage sex. Hm. Good point. blaugh
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 4:40 pm
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:17 pm
Laura.Is.My.Fairy.Princes Pretty well actually
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