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 Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 11:44 am
Ohkay i am 12. I have a boyfriend whose 14. We love each other but...i am not shure if this is normel.....
redface He makes me horney whenever we kiss or nething
stressed ive made him have a boner atleast 3 or 4 times
and we makeout..
i mean arnt i too young to have my hotmones go nuts like this...him i understand mroe bc he is two years older
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 11:23 am
(first of all ir horomonse, not hotomones)
Okay, It may be a little inapropriate for you two to be that sexually active because of the age difference. Your at different stages at the moment but if you where both in highschool then you'd probably be a little closer.
The fact you gave him a boner afew times doesn't really mean anything, just that he really likes your.....uh.....'moves'. As long as you don't let it interfere with your entire life, you should be fine.
And before you loose your verganity, think, 'is he just horny, or does he really love me'. (always use a condom, you don't want a baby at such a young age) Is he pressuring you into these things or are you both okay with it?
Please try not to loose your verganity, because once it's gone, it'll never come back. Rember Sex isn't love.
(Also, your younger then me and doing this stuff with your boyfriend, I'm a little jelouse.)
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Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 8:22 pm
Honestly sweetheart you really shouldnt be doing those kind of things. A lot of that, could spoil your childhood. I dont want to say you shouldnt be in love but darling, enjoy your youth. I am 19 and already missing being that age. You dont even need to think about those things..it makes you worry,stressful and they are quite more adult things, stuff like that could lead to sexual activities and you might become pregnant. You get those feelings when you two do those things because its chemically produced by your body for reproduction and he being so young probably doesnt know limits, or wouldnt care "I just want to know what it feels like" sort of line could be said...Take things slow. Please. <3
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Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 1:49 pm
Hormornes are totally normal, but keeping them in control is the hard part really just dont do anything that you may regret until you're a little older but whats going on with your body is normal, besides the guys 14 he's gonna pressure you somehow even if it is making out... at 12 i wasn't doing any of that stuff. so take it slow and you know do more stuff without being THAT close.
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 3:21 pm
I would defiinatly wait till your older, especially if you have an older bf, you really gotta slow down!
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 6:35 pm
I think you are alittle too young. I dont think you are old enough to adaquitly make that choice, and if you did do anythng it would be rape.
Im sorry, I just think you are too young to be doing that especialy with someone older than you.
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:50 pm
you need to control your hormones cuz if you dont you will end up sleeping with this guy and who knows what will happen to you cuz once you loose your virginity you cant take it back soo if it was me i would slow down and think "does this guy love me or is he using me to get in his pants,"Is he responsible to use protection", you know stuff like that but yeah just slow down and think about it
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Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 2:12 pm
i agree with all of them but i am in that situation right now....i am 13 and dating my 16 year camp cpunsler. xp i think you should slow down a bit and take things slow... if he really loves you then he'll understand that you are not easy and he is just not horny. i am not saying this to be mean but where are your parents during all of this? question
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Posted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 7:08 am
Sex isn't love.
A boner doesn't mean he thinks you're perfect.
You getting wet doesn't mean that it's meant to be.
Don't lose your virginity to something you think is going to last forever when you're 12.
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 9:23 am
12 is wayyyyy too young darling. Sex isn't everything in a relationship and what happens to you both during your make outs is normal... It probably shouldn't be happening at 12 (Making out, that is.). Go outside and play! Be a kid while you can. You'll have plenty of time to have sex when you're older when you understand it more and are a little more responsible.
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:13 am
MissDeeDee 12 is wayyyyy too young darling. Sex isn't everything in a relationship and what happens to you both during your make outs is normal... It probably shouldn't be happening at 12 (Making out, that is.). Go outside and play! Be a kid while you can. You'll have plenty of time to have sex when you're older when you understand it more and are a little more responsible. I agree completely with wat missdeedee said. honestly i wasn't even thinking about kissing till i was in high school. I wanted to run and play and hang out with friends far more than wanted a "serious" relationship or intimacy at age 12! honestly cut back and relax and don't focus on sex till you are old enough to handle the thought of all the outcomes it leads to.
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