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Alright, I have a friend, I wont mention her name, who is Bi Curious, but even we both know she is straight.
Well, lately, she has been having weird dreams, and I sorta researched on them and this is what I got:

She had a dream of a fat blobby woman laying on a table, having sex with other woman with no expression on her face. My friend told me it looked like a cartoonish Rosie O Donald. Then her dream ended on a slow and terribly animated kiss with a random woman.

She has this dream dictionary, which she used for looking up thing that were in the dream and came to the conclusion that she either a) Desires to explore being a lesbian or b) wants to work at winning her own battles.

Well, she told me last night about another dream she had, but not all the details, just that the last part, which looked like a video game, represented that she needs to get in touch with her most feminine side.
She isn't the girliest girl I have met so far, she is a real tomboy...or as she says it, a boy named Tom XD

And By now, you are probably skiping over everything to get to my question XD:
Do you believe that your sexuality can alert you through dreams?
And Have you had any?

I myself had, but I'll probably post it in the next post...this one will be so huge XB

I moved your thread to sexuality.

Dreams can tell you alot of things, but I don't beleive in those dream books. You should looking into what the dream means yourself and don't let a book tell you what it means.

For instance, your dream can be taken many ways. Pearls are sometimes a referance to the c**t so it could mean your c**t wants more attention. *shrugs* Just a thought.

jaa ne

Kat

Sure, just place Kat Williams at the end if you could be so kind.



It is fine. I've seen much worse from people who are born english speaking. *sighs*

jaa ne

Kat

Yup.

A while back, I had a dream where I was in somone's house, and there were all these girls, all dressed in white, and sitting neatly in a row. And all of them wanted me to eat them out. I believe I chose one or two of them to go down on.

In all honesty, it was just very odd.

I'd say dreams can absolutely involve identifying your sexuality. or, in fact, many other issues in your life. I have many vivid dreams in which I am either a man with a woman, or lesbian. I’ve also dreamt of being a gay man......but it is rare that I will dream of being in a heterosexual relationship.

Even back when I used to date men, whenever I’d dream about my boyfriend he would be this ambiguous figure hugging me, but when I dream about the girls I like or am dating, they're faces are detailed and I know them immediately...if that makes sense.

I don't place much value in those dream interpretation books much either. though once, I was on the fence about whether I wanted to break up with my significant other, and had a dream in which he sat in a dark room wearing only white and playing a violin. as I approached him he stood and handed it to me, but I dropped it and it shattered on the floor. according to something I read, that signifies a separation, and it helped me to decide to end it there.

I also dreamt about a my first love. She was going through a bad break up, to the point of nearly committing suicide, and had few friends. I wanted to express my feelings for her, but I felt that that would hurt her even more. I was in the closet still, and her last girlfriend’s mother had forbidden them to be together after she was outed. I was very conflicted. Then one night I had a dream in which she sat crying on a bench in the middle of a crowded room, and no one even looked at her. I walked over and sat down beside her, and instead of doing what I wanted to do, kiss her, I put my arms around her and hugged her tightly. I decided to be her friend instead of expressing myself, and I don’t regret it. I really think it’s better this way.

Ah so long...that’s about the longest thing I’ve ever put up.

I can'T speak for every lesbiens or anything, but I woke up from a dreamonce, about my friend...and that's how I had discovered I was a lesbien, then found out I was bi. BUt that's not the point!

Maybe your friend is not a liesbien but actualy bi. But if you persist on saying not, maybe she just can't believe it then?