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 Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 3:31 pm
[Just so you know...I'm a woman, RinaLee to be exact. I just felt like having a male avvie for a while--]
So...the guy that I had fallen for turned out to be gay. I was heartbroken, but tried to stay in an upbeat mood. I called home [I live away from home], and asked my mom if my sister had told her. She said yes--
So, I was talking to her about it, and she asked why I always fell for gay men. Like, she said "You're my daughter! You should have great Gaydar!" [Her brother was gay, so she's got really good Gaydar] I told her...I just like femmine men...and she just...out of the blue...asked "Are you gay?" I went silent. What the hell was I supposed to say to that?! I mean, I know I like women...and femmine men...I consider myself 65/35, with women in the lead. So I didn't say anything for about 30 seconds. She asked if I was still there, and I said, "There's something...that KT knows...and John knows...and Chris knows...and most of my friends online know...that you don't know--" "Well, you better just say it." "Well, you already told me you don't believe that..." "What?" "I'm...I'm bisexual--" "What, that's the secret? I already knew that!" "Wait, what? You did?!--" "Why else would you fall for guys that look like girls?" I was FLOORED. I had no idea that it was that obvious to her. I had no idea...I was just in shock--
She basically told me that she was fine with that; it changed nothing, and she told me that she would have no problem with me having a girlfriend. I about fainted. I do, however, live in rural Oregon, so there aren't any out girls within a 20 mile radius, so until I transfer to the big university, I'm still going to be alone--
After I got off the phone...I started wondering "Maybe I'm not even bisexual...I don't really fall for manly-men...just girly-men....could that mean.......?--" So now I'm seriously pondering my sexualty again--
[Just a quick question: If you only like super-femme men, does that make a difference? I mean, lately, I've been much more into women...what do you think?--]
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Posted: Tue Feb 27, 2007 7:23 am
i say you're still bi i mean i'm totes in the middle of falling for a guy who's a crossdresser... i think we all go through things where we like one or the other... it's just how the world works... btw in my theory of life everyone's bisexual you just develop prefrences, i'd say keep your title of bi and just do whatever your heart tells you to
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 1:03 am
I still think your bi. My bf I swear can be more feminine than me but i'm 80/20 with my bisexuality. I'm glad to hear that your mom was okay with it. I don't know what my mom would say...
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Posted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 2:13 pm
i'm 95/5 twords women and the only men i like are SO girly looking that people mistake them for girls.....but its the truth so yeah i call myself a lesbian because i only lke those that look like girls and i can't be with any manly looking men 3nodding
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