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 Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 12:31 am
No really. I hate pretty much all of them.
Unless they prove that theyre nice, etc.
I got warned by a mod because I went off on this jackass that was demeaning women.
Thats not right.
I mean, if you look at my past posts, I talk about them any time I can, even if its no where near the subject!
I hate how theyre stronger than us.
I hate their p***s. No matter how funny it sounds, I HATE their p***s.
Put both those together and you get rape.
Dont ask me how, thats my conclusion.
Their testosterone drives them to want sex 10X more than women want it.
When they dont get it, they go violent.
Of course theres more to this, but youre just going to have to talk to me.
One thing about me, I hate to hate.
So Im just a sitting contradiction here.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 2:52 am
Was their something in your past that made you so angry at men in general?
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 5:49 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 8:49 am
You know, I'm really not a big fan of men myself.
I think I like three men that aren't in my family. (They're all gay).
I have bad history with men, and that could be it I suppose. Or else it's just something in them.....
I have a huge p***s problem, so I definately second that!
I get you heart
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 12:14 pm
do transexuals fall into this category of hate sad
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 12:41 pm
1!ZZ do transexuals fall into this category of hate sad Transsexuals are their choosen gender. I don't think you fall under this catagory. Considering most Trans hate their genitals then I'm guessing you can relate to what the others are talking about. I don't hate men as much as just don't like being around them for many of the same reasons mentioned and more. I have to fight the urge to cry when a guy even tries to hug me, which a few male friends were at our wedding and there were many huges all around. Just so you know there are some good guys out there and there are a few here in the guild even. Not all men fall under the sterotypes given, just the ones that stick out in your mind do. So to the men here, you are well, just realize that a few of use have had bad experiances and don't feel to warmly about the opposite sex. jaa ne Kat
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 1:12 pm
1!ZZ do transexuals fall into this category of hate sad For me, it's not like I automatically hate or even dislike every guy I meet. I like to see people as individuals, but if I don't, if all men were indeed clumped together, then that's a clump I wouldn't like. I think this is the case for most 'men-dislikers'. But I like you heart
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 3:52 pm
I tend to generally not trust guys anymore, except for guys I was already good friends with before I found out what happened to me when I was in daycare once upon a time. Obviously I still trust my best friend Sean. I'd trust him with more than my life.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 4:19 pm
I'm not comfortable around guys, for the most part, but I certainly don't hate them. Was there a reason for you hating all men so much that you decided to demean them the way that they might have demeaned other women? Fighting fire with fire and hatred with hatred isn't always the best solution.
Unless you can give me a good reason for this hatred, other than their gender, which they didn't decide to be born with, then I can't help but find this a little offensive. As a feministic girl, and even as a feministic girl who likes other girls, this is the sort of image that quite a few people see: an open man-hater. I don't like the image or the stigma or the hatred.
So, I'm sorry for your grievances, but I really don't understand how you could hate people that you haven't met. Nothing makes me angrier than that.
I realize that you say that they can prove themselves to be nice, but... I don't know. I've only ever truly hated one person in my entire life, and that was because he was a terrible individual who hurt a dear friend of mine. Yes, this guy raped her, but it wasn't because he was a boy, it was because he was a-- Oh, I don't have words to describe what kind of an individual I believe him to be.
Anyway, my point is this: Individuals all have the potential to be loathsome. But not based on any physical characteristics. If they're a jerk, even if they had an awful life or an easy one, it's their character that determines their worth. Not their gender.
~ Moya
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:27 pm
Guys, I don't hate them but I don't like them that much either. Good as friends if they are not perverts, its fun to make fun of the guy behind me, and thats about it. Unforcantly, most of them fall under the perverts catogory. sweatdrop Its rare for me to find one that isn't constantly trying to find a girlfriend. It just pisses me off even if it isn't me. Most of the boys don't try anymore because any flirting that gets on my nerves is met by a flying book. lol My mom saids its the only way they can communicate, bullcrap. I believe you should stay with your girlfriend for a couple of months, not weeks, if you know what I mean. I remember I had a total of one crush on a guy, but then it kinda faded out once I began watching Naruto with him. Then I kinda forgot about the whole thing. sweatdrop I was friends with his little sister and after she went to sleep, we watched Naruto until 5 a.m. I'm rambling. I better stop before I bore you to death.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 8:17 pm
Messenger_Of_The_Moon I tend to generally not trust guys anymore, except for guys I was already good friends with before I found out what happened to me when I was in daycare once upon a time. Obviously I still trust my best friend Sean. I'd trust him with more than my life. I can't even go down that road I had a REALLy good friend who was a guy and we were friends for several years and He was ALWAYS on my case about why won't I date him, I then told him when I was about to leave for college that I had a sort of relationship online and I told him who it was with and he bitterly told everyone That I was a quote "BIG lesbian" luckily most people figured he was just being a cry baby cause I wouldn't date him and figured I was using an excuse to get him to cut the crap
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 9:22 pm
Kt-Chi No really. I hate pretty much all of them. Unless they prove that theyre nice, etc. I got warned by a mod because I went off on this jackass that was demeaning women. Thats not right. I mean, if you look at my past posts, I talk about them any time I can, even if its no where near the subject! I hate how theyre stronger than us. I hate their p***s. No matter how funny it sounds, I HATE their p***s. Put both those together and you get rape. Dont ask me how, thats my conclusion. Their testosterone drives them to want sex 10X more than women want it. When they dont get it, they go violent. Of course theres more to this, but youre just going to have to talk to me. One thing about me, I hate to hate. So Im just a sitting contradiction here. well i can understand to a certain point why you can hate them ...just like vice versa with women but just horomes and stronger then females...not very valid argument i say but ill let it be i dislike men i want them only as friends i dont like men swear or talking perverted like when im around either....*just realized that shes like a mother scolding children*...so i only have guy friends that A arent perverts and B just like me and what im interested in ...also i need trust form them to the men i hate the most are what i like to call super perve's and Holy crap super perve's are obiovous the men that talk about sex sex and well sexual related things Holy Crap's are the men that think they are the best thing on God's green earth since sliced bread rolleyes and for the most part most men fit one of the two if not both those describitions lucky for me i didnt even have to deal with this expected for highschool were i met the guy that made me realize hate can have a new meaning loath! he that he was all that and sex meant everything to him ...well one day i snap and stbbed him with a pen ! xp i know it wasnt the best thing sweatdrop but it definitly striked him with the shock that he was moral! lol he feared me ...wait what was the point of this post?
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 9:41 pm
As for guys being more perverted than girls... The guys I know aren't nearly as perverted as some of the girls that I know, and it's not really a measure of character, is it? After all, I have female friends who can find innuendo in any statement and who -- though straight -- will pretend to hit on other friends who are girls, because they like messing around. I only know one guy who's like that at all, and he's mostly stopped since his freshman year.
Of course, I go to an arts high school, and we're pretty liberal and open about everything, so that might have skewed these results, but seriously. Men can be physically stronger than women, it's true. Men can be highly interested in sex, that's also true. But that's no reason to believe that they'll all rape women, or that they're all stronger, or all more perverted, or anything of the sort.
I realize that this thread was made to ask for help, but I'm having a hard time feeling pity in the face of such sexism. If the same things were said about girls in my presence, I'd speak up then, too, but really.
*sigh* Unfortunately, this is just one of my absolute worst pet peeves. I may have been an extreme feminist when I was little, and probably would've agreed with you then, but now I'm trying to keep as many stereotypes as possible from clouding my vision. This is no different from a chauvinistic male's tirade against women.
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Jeeze, I need to sleep. I think I'm overreacting. This just happens to be one of two triggers that set me off. I think I'll stop posting in here, to keep myself from getting too angry.
Good evening,
~ Moya
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 10:18 pm
1!ZZ do transexuals fall into this category of hate sad Of course not. heart
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 10:29 pm
Moya of the Mist As for guys being more perverted than girls... The guys I know aren't nearly as perverted as some of the girls that I know, and it's not really a measure of character, is it? After all, I have female friends who can find innuendo in any statement and who -- though straight -- will pretend to hit on other friends who are girls, because they like messing around. I only know one guy who's like that at all, and he's mostly stopped since his freshman year. Of course, I go to an arts high school, and we're pretty liberal and open about everything, so that might have skewed these results, but seriously. Men can be physically stronger than women, it's true. Men can be highly interested in sex, that's also true. But that's no reason to believe that they'll all rape women, or that they're all stronger, or all more perverted, or anything of the sort. I realize that this thread was made to ask for help, but I'm having a hard time feeling pity in the face of such sexism. If the same things were said about girls in my presence, I'd speak up then, too, but really. *sigh* Unfortunately, this is just one of my absolute worst pet peeves. I may have been an extreme feminist when I was little, and probably would've agreed with you then, but now I'm trying to keep as many stereotypes as possible from clouding my vision. This is no different from a chauvinistic male's tirade against women. ... Jeeze, I need to sleep. I think I'm overreacting. This just happens to be one of two triggers that set me off. I think I'll stop posting in here, to keep myself from getting too angry. Good evening, ~ Moya She's not a sexist. Unfortunately, she's been treated very poorly by men. A lot of men talk about how much better they are than women. Bullshit. They might be stronger and stuff, but there's no reason for them to put women down to make them look superior. Not all men suck, bu the majority of who I've run into have. And right now, I agree with her. I've been treated like dirt as well. But I am not a sexist, and neither is she. neutral
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