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 Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 2:48 pm
Hello, everyone. I'm Forte.
I'm...having problems. u.u
I'm working at my first job at a grocery store. I'm a cashier (mainly).
I went and got this job because I was sitting at home, bored, with nothing to do, and wanting to get out more often and make some money. I chose the store because it seemed like a nice place to work. The people there were friendly and seemed so nice to each other.
Little did I know it was just another circle of friends. Those god damn circles that don't let anyone else in. When I got hired, I was sorely disappointed. My coworkers rarely ever talked to me, if not avoided me altogether. The customers just came and gone, like no big deal. The days were long and tedious. It was NOT the job I had sought to get.
I made a few mistakes. Who doesn't? But I had such bad timing...if it wasn't problems with my coworkers, it was the customers unlucky enough to be around me at the time of misgivings between me and someone else. I let my temper get the better of me, and I said some things I probably shouldn't have said.
So now my manager has given me an ultimatum: I have to keep my mouth shut and my temper in check if I want to keep my job. If I can do that, I can continue working there. If not, I'm out of a job. I have 3 days off before I have to go back again.
...Guys...I can't do it. It's basically asking me to change who I am...and old habits die hard. -.-
What am I gonna do? I have no friends to go to, and my parents aren't being sympathetic; they're simply saying "Well what did you expect?"
I don't need more lectures. I need comfort. I need a shoulder to cry on. I want someone to care. I don't have anyone. I'm falling apart.
Halp. crying
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 5:38 pm
ADVICE: Really? I'd bare it for a little while longer, all the while searching for a new job. sweatdrop Jobs are nice and all, and so is the money, but I'm sure the pay isn't that good to be keeping you there.
And uaasfaudsfuaughgh. I totally hate cliques that places like that have and s**t! It's sooo ridiculous. I totally understand, tho'; really, most any place you work will have little 'groups'; you just have to find a place that has tolerable workers. biggrin You just got a bad pick! At work you can find some totally awesome friends, too.
But oiiiii! Like I said, I'm really sorry about your coworkers being assholes. And, well. :3 !!! ::Hugs!:: And I dunchu' worry! I careeee! ;___; <3
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 6:58 pm
Laeluu But oiiiii! Like I said, I'm really sorry about your coworkers being assholes. And, well. :3 !!! ::Hugs!:: And I dunchu' worry! I careeee! ;___; <3
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Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 3:31 pm
Awwww, you're totally welcome! <3
I'm like a vending machine for hugs--minus the quarters!
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Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 5:00 am
Being new to any place always gets you to a hard start.
Gotta keep your head up and not show that you're falling apart.
As for changing, I don't think that just because you got a new job means you need to change who you are. I wouldn't let that happen to me.
Even, if worse comes to worse, quit. I mean, if you have bitchy employees to work with, you might end up becoming the same. Do you want that?
And also, just remember we are all here for you. I love to give and recieve hugs <3
-Hughugforyou-
<333;
My shoulder is always available. :3
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