Welcome to Gaia! ::

Reply Adult Gaians- College and Beyond!
I really hate this. Goto Page: 1 2 [>] [»|]

Quick Reply

Enter both words below, separated by a space:

Can't read the text? Click here

Submit

The Lady Eyeball

PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 1:56 pm


Alright, this is pointless, but I need to vent...again.

I'm changing halls because the people across the hall from me are, for no reason whatsoever besides my appearance (apparently the color black offends them), obsessed with hating me. I've never even spoken to them except once when I asked one of them why she was screaming "f*cking bitches!" at my and my roommate's door. And she just walked away.

I've never, ever experienced such intolerance. There's literally no reason for it. I've even smiled at them or waved when I'd seen them before this started.

It's like high school- no, grade school.

It's really unbelievable.

I'm forcing myself to not say a word, because I'm not starting s**t and putting my financial aid in jeopardy.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 9:53 am


Definitely sounds like the best way to go about it. Kudos for not putting up with such intolerance. That's ridiculous.

LilKitty115


Annalixa

PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 2:18 pm


I can't believe there are still such ignorant dipshits in the world--pardon my French.

It sucks that you have to deal with that crap. Most of us white folk aren't that retarded, I promise. rofl
PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 9:35 pm


Oh the joys of dorms in colleges with ignorant people in there. Good job on ignoring their s**t because I would have slapped a b***h around

StincerRobot


tomoyo_daidouji

PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 10:08 pm


well, i guess all you can do is act "maturely" which means you just shrug them off everytime they bother you or say bad words behind your back. I mean that's the best way of atleast dealing with it.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 10:34 pm


evil Bastards. That is the best thing to do get away. And do not let people tell you that you should not let them win. I hate that, I almost punch someone whenever they say stuff like that to me.

Anyway you are making the right choice, move out and stay out of trouble. Pride is not worth losing financial aid. You have my support.

XenoReiji


The Lady Eyeball

PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 10:56 pm


XenoReiji
evil Bastards. That is the best thing to do get away. And do not let people tell you that you should not let them win. I hate that, I almost punch someone whenever they say stuff like that to me.

Anyway you are making the right choice, move out and stay out of trouble. Pride is not worth losing financial aid. You have my support.


Agreed. My roommate is pretty upset because we get along and she actually started crying. I almost did.

But yeah. Everyone I know agrees that I shouldn't try to "make a stand." Sometimes you just need to pick your battles and I'd probably end up cutting a b***h. cool 4laugh Not really, but still.

Actually, the girl is like seven feet tall and all meaty. She'd just pick me up and throw me. Even in platform heels I have to look up at her.
PostPosted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 2:03 pm


I don't know much about dorm life, but is there someone you can talk to in a dorm management position?

I say, you might be able to get another dorm room temporarily until they're kicked out. Then you get to move back cool

People like them don't deserve to have decent people make room for them. I wouldn't let them have their way.

Edmund_Cole


Shelithra

PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 10:32 am


It's sad to think those kind of people are still spawning and growing in the world. Good for you for not stooping to their level though. Doing something that would get you in trouble would only be letting them win. They would then get the satisfaction of seeing you punished over something they caused. You just hang in there and take pride in the fact you are far bigger than they are. Maybe not in physical size, but in maturity, and that's what counts.
PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 11:15 am


You should speak to the dorm people about it, maybe those two will get shoved in another dorm and you won't have to move. Though I'm glad to hear that you aren't decking them, as much as they deserve it. People like that somehow spin a tale that makes it look like everything wasn't their fault.

Celene Evans

Sugary Sweetheart

18,575 Points
  • Elocutionist 200
  • Alchemy Level 10 100
  • The Sweetest 250

CXTKRS1

PostPosted: Wed May 09, 2007 12:32 am


Just curious but why are they are so rude to you? Is it just because you wear black or what?
PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 7:49 am


That is horrible...and I thought I went to the most intolerant college ever at one point. I used to go to Miami University, in Ohio, which is the preppiest, snootiest, most stuck-up college you will ever find. Surprisingly though, (even thought I like to dress kind of emo or goth depending on my mood) nobody gave me a hard time. To my face, at least. My roommate was even a cheerleader, and one of the preppier girls there, but she was such a nice girl. She never gave me a hard time.

I just can't believe how disgusting and intolerant the girls at your dorm were being.

Quietly Losing Control


Skye_7188

PostPosted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 3:39 am


don't feel bad my first year (which was last year) I moved from the brand new extremely nice dorm building to the old run down building (it was my own choice b/c things weren't going that well) went through two room mates (here's hoping third times a charm) and had an on going war with the girls next door (we share a bathroom), as well with some other people (some I don't even know) and found out that an ex I thought I would never see again (and prayed I wouldn't) is in my honors class and then got stuck doing a project with him. So, yah when I say I know what your going through believe me I know and it will get better (at least I hope).
PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 11:49 am


XenoReiji
evil Bastards. That is the best thing to do get away. And do not let people tell you that you should not let them win. I hate that, I almost punch someone whenever they say stuff like that to me.

Anyway you are making the right choice, move out and stay out of trouble. Pride is not worth losing financial aid. You have my support.

True, but there comes a point in time when you have to decide when you can't brush it off anymore, can't smile and say "my pride has stopped bleeding for now". I got away from my hellacious roommates, but there is nothing that would satisfy me more than revenge. Idle swearing to the heavens that those two-faced whores will pay isn't enough.

MeitheamhRose


MeitheamhRose

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 11:51 am


Besides, karma never catches up to them when you're around to watch.
Reply
Adult Gaians- College and Beyond!

Goto Page: 1 2 [>] [»|]
 
Manage Your Items
Other Stuff
Get GCash
Offers
Get Items
More Items
Where Everyone Hangs Out
Other Community Areas
Virtual Spaces
Fun Stuff
Gaia's Games
Mini-Games
Play with GCash
Play with Platinum