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Need advice, please help!!! (didn't know where to post this)

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K-man_#1

PostPosted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 11:04 am


Ok, so there is this girl in my school that I really like.
The girl that I like is:
-pretty
-Asian
-funny
-energetic
-smart
-friendly
To most people in my grade level I'm:
-annoying
But that's one of the problems; people see me as some annoying kid and they judge me, and that hurts me a lot because even though I can be annoying to some people sometimes, I still have feelings. crying
The thing about me is that I'm actually a kind, smart, intelligent, loveable, funny and friendly person, it's just that people don't really take their time to find more about me and my true self. (I've cried a lot of times about this cry )
Well back to the girl I like. I was thinking about trying a direct approach telling her how I feel about her and that the way she and other people see me is not the true me. But I'm scared of doing that. (Ohh, and there is allways someone around her, if I'm going to try a direct approach then I need to do it in someplace where on one is around.)
What shoould I do? question gonk

(Ohh and she plays the violin too, we're both very good at it, she's also into anime like me!)
PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 6:22 pm


No-one wants to help me??? cry cry cry

K-man_#1


K-man_#1

PostPosted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 5:17 pm


crying gonk But I'm desperate!!! cry crying gonk
PostPosted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:21 pm


crying

K-man_#1


wXeRo15

PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 4:25 pm


hmm... I suggest u make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend first lol

And then just ask if u could talk to her alon (if someone is by her) and tell her how u feel. If she rejects u, don't take it hard, don't get upset, don't get angry, and just walk away happy because u just achieved a goal of urs, to talk to her and ask her out.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:59 am


I agree, just try to get her alone and tell her how you feel, get straight to the point without making excuses, and see how she reacts

Scarletsun
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xX_dark-fox-13_Xx

PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 10:41 am


I think you should first get to know her better, just start by saying 'Hi' and start a conversation with her even if she has people around her. Then after a while of just being her friend ask to speak to her in private then tell her how you feel.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 11:11 am


don't tell her how you feel, try to be friends with her. go hang out or something. Trust me, just telling them your feelings doesn't work. It causes awkwardness. you're being clingy. clingy =/= hott. it's just wrong. and i've dating clingy. and that makes you want to stab yourself....it does

tamachan414


Angelic-Sargeant

PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 6:19 pm


xXCherry_SweetXx
I think you should first get to know her better, just start by saying 'Hi' and start a conversation with her even if she has people around her. Then after a while of just being her friend ask to speak to her in private then tell her how you feel.

Yeah, but you could start with a complement, and don't make it cheesy! I say listen to the girls that posted, for obvious reasons.
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