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 Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 4:50 pm
ok here is teh deal....i hate my life....the main person i have ever cared about has devestated and hurt me. i am having pain i didnt know exsisted, please someone i just need to talk....this pain is killing me and i need help i dont know how to cope...please post with advice....sorry if i shouldnt make this forum....but i feel like i really need help...please?
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:04 pm
Well, since it seems like I have a promising career as a therapist then I guess I should help. Uh, can you be a little more specific? Like, what exactly happened? THe only advice I can give with out any extra info is to, first calm down, take a deep breath. Sounds like s**t advice but it works. Maybe that person wasn't worth it if that's the way they want to treat you. I had a huge falling out with a girl I considered to be my best friend, and I lost a lot of sleep over it, but now I realized that all along she'd been a b***h to me and treated me like scum, so she really wasn't worth worrying about.
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:26 pm
its because i am an a*****e....for a year and a half she loved me and i hurt her by not being happy, because i didnt think i could be happy....i cheated on her with multipl people...i understand i hurt her...and there was a big fight between me her another girl i loved and a girl i liked alot.....we had a huge fight/sit down and talk /more fighting then anything....i relize i was stupid and i changed completly for her.....adn i fought hard to date her, finaly i she offerd to date me adn the otehr girl i loved at teh same time...a threesome relationship.....i accepted because although i did love the other girl.....i felt nothing fer her next to ashley...(the girl i love)....we dated tehn broke up....ashley sadi that that was my chacne to prove myself, even thought becca teh other girl broke us apart......so i fight more and more to be with her...finaly she says ok she will give me a chacne....but not like that...she says it in a sort of riddle...she tries to beat around the bush and i dont get it.....so i get a little depressd becuase i think she is telling me to take a hike....so she decieds that she dosnt want me and now saying she dosnt love me anymore...adn dosnt feel teh same way...but never giving me a chace to see what might have happened.....and now i llike akuma quite a bit but i havea heart of pain and suffering right now....this is why i wasnt sure of what i should do....whats some advice..i got almost no sleep in the last 3 nights i have been puking and have had a never ******** ending migrain for two months now (since teh sit down fight and fight some more thinger)....i need help because i feel like i am going to kill myself and i dont want to do that....and i dont want to hurt akuma..
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Posted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 1:25 pm
Wow...that is a bit ******** up, but everyone makes mistakes. Maybe you just need to sit down and realize that you can change, that just because you did something wrong in the past doesn't mean you're doomed to have shitty relationships for ever. You learn from your mistakes, so tell yourself that you can be better. Sorry if that was shitty advice but that's all I've got. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 8:47 am
ya, listen to yuri, she knows about shitty relationships from me and our friends. and don't keep beating yourself up. sometimes things happen and you think that you can't deal with them but if you let things go and don't worry about stuff so much, you'll be fine.
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 3:21 pm
Yep. But mostly just you. And my mom. Mine aren't that bad. I'm just romantically retarded or something. And most men are just idiots. (No offense, Xinarin, but it's kind of true.)
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