Hello and Welcome to the Guild!
There are a few Rules to abide by, but other than that, feel free to have fun and discuss anything that interests you.
RULES
1.This guild is for IN-DEPTH discussion, so please do not post a topic and never reply to ANY of the responses. If you are going to respond, please check previous responses to make sure you are not just reiterating what someone else said. If you have more to add, then quote them and add to their post. If you are the original poster...please check your topic! You are responsible for thanking and talking to the people who give you advice!
2. NO FLAMING. I can't always be on the guild and I don't necessarily read every post. If you find people who are flaming or harrassing others, please send me an email with a link to the post and the name of the flamer. I WILL take care of these as promptly as I can. If you are caught flaming you will be given one warning. You will be added to the blacklist in this thread. A second offence will result in banning, no questions asked. Flaming WILL NOT be tolerated. This guild is intended as a safe place for open discussion. You are more than welcome to share your opinion, but remember...it is YOUR opinion. Not everyone will agree with you.
3. Keep your advice friendly and pertinent, and PLEASE make sure to separate OPINION from fact. If you believe something, please make sure that is clear from something you know. Any links to sites with pertinent information may be included in your post and if I find especially helpful ones, I may add them to the links page. Please do not tell people to check other threads in this guild for advice about their issue. Everyone has unique questions and concerns for their particular problem and I want to make sure everyone has a chance to ask THEIR question.
4. Please make ALL posts coherent, clear, and specific. Any posts that could be thought of as "n00bish", aka "I was wondering what a bf is", will be deleted. This is an extended forum of Life Issues, and I want to keep discussion intelligent. Therefore, no trolling.
5. NO COMP SPEAK. Period. Try hard to make yourself sound educated and intelligent. I understand typos, but no abbreviations or use of numbers in place of words. It doesn't take that much to capitalize, spell correctly, use good grammar, and use punctuation. It will only help people take you more seriously in here anyway. You are more likely to give good advice to someone you have some respect for rather than someone you feel is a complete idiot. So try to make it look good.
6. Please limit quoting. If someone has a very long first message, try to pull out the important parts to quote. Try to keep your quotes to six lines or less as a guideline. And NO page-stretching. It is annoying, I will just delete your posts and it makes it hard to read the posts.
7. DO NOT post links to other topics on this website. If you are interested in reposting something from the Life Issues subforum, please copy-paste it in here. If there are relevant responses you would like to include, feel free to respond to your own topic quoting those. Again...it is a simple copy paste. IF you post a link to another topic here, your post will be deleted. If you have found an interesting and relevant article and would like to post it, please post the link in the Link Sticky, then PM me. I will review the link and make sure it is appropriate for the forum. Links are welcome and appreciated.
8. Sex and other such topics are for MATURE discussion. If you can't handle being mature about a subject, please don't post. And don't post saying you don't know. Those posts are pointless and unhelpful. If you are posting just to earn gold, please take it to the chatterbox. Make your posts valuable to the person who asked for help. If you are uncomfortable talking about sex, please do not go into those posts. You have been forewarned that these topics contain MATURE SUBJECT MATTER. Please follow Gaia ToS when posting, but please feel free to ask relevant and important questions in your post.
9. If you are interested in setting up an "ASK ME" thread, please PM me. Please be a regular poster in the guild (over 25 good, relevant advice posts) before requesting a sticky and PM me links to your advice posts. We will then negotiate setting up your own sticky. The application will be posted in another sticky with further explanations. Please do not post "ASK ME" threads in this guild. This is intended to run similar to the Life Issues Subforum.
10. Donations are gladly accepted to keep this guild running smoothly. Please send any donations to LI-Extended, the guild mule, or feel free to send them to anyone who you think has been especially helpful. Please see the Donations Announcement for more information.
