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Dorian`

PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 2:57 pm


(HAH. I MADE THE THREAD. YOU SAID I COULDN'T DO IT, BUT I DID. twisted
Anyway, if a thread like this has already been made, tell'm. (:
Oh, and keep it vague - probably limited to time/place/circumstances, etc., because of Gaia's TOS.)

So, as I never fail to state, I'm a virgin (oh noes!), but I think all of us have wondered at some point how/when/by whom our virginity would be taken. o: . . .haven't we? >>; -feels dirty-
Aaaayway, if it's already happened to you and you don't care if everybody finds out how/when/etc., then share, or if you're just musing on the idea then share. JUST SHARE. c:
As for myself, none of these thoughts are really serious, but last year my friends and I liked to list the places that I might end up losing my virginity xD:
In bed (xPP),
on a sofa,
in a car,
on a car,
on a table,
on a chair,
on a counter,
on a bench,
on the floor,
in a large potted plant,
on a desk,
in a public restroom ( gonk ),
on the computer,
in a plane,
on a plane,
on a telephone pole,
on the stove (me on top, pls. Dx),
in the bathroom,
in a sink.

-another act of silliness-
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:49 pm


Yay, a thread where virgins can post! Lol. xPP

When I do lose my virginity... Hopefully, it'll be to a girl who I'm in a serious relationship with, some long-term thing at the least.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 12:24 am


redface Oh dear, I can't believe you posted this! lol

All I know for sure is I'd like it to be with someone who has some experience. It'd make me feel better. As for when. . . well, a committed/long term relationship is what I'm looking for, but I'm not sure how I define committed/long term yet, so I suppose I'll just have to think more about it when I get there. sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 5:43 am


Lost mine about a week before my 17th birthday, roughly last september. Was with my ex, i'd been going out with him for about 3-4 months but i'd known him for long. Hehe god i can still remember....nevermind anyway we'd gone swimming in the sea and i'd been messing around with him then. we went upstairs and was getting dried off when i pulled him onto the bed and we were having fun and well the rest is history lol no way am i going into more detail i can still remember everything about how he was gentle an all that.

First time it did hurt a lil but then well i was big...*Snort* he was a bit bigger than big lol anyway it took a few times before i started having more fun razz

My ex's name is Kevin and we are still very good friends and even my boyfriend is sorta friends with him lol. I'll never regret losing my virginity with him because i love him more than anything and always will wink

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 2:02 pm


Ohohoho. x3
I'm a virgin, but I have a few ideas.

The biggest and best would be in my CATHOLIC SCHOOL'S bathroom. With a girl.
It's so risqué and exciting, it would be fun. xD;

Other places and ways?
Hm. With someone I really love. At a completely random time, in a completely random place.
Just as long as I don't have the time to get nervous about it and I'm comfortable with the person, it would be nice.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 7:36 pm


Yeah, in all seriousness, I'd probably want to lose it to someone who I'm in a really serious relationship with and who is a virgin. idk why a virgin; maybe so I won't feel like a complete failure. xDDD
Aaaand. in the shower. xP Because I had a funny dream about showerbuttsecks the other night.

Dorian`


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 6:07 pm



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I'm a 21-year-old virgin.

Never particularly thought about where I'd lose it. More thought about when and to what gender.
(Yes I know the technical meaning of the word 'virginity', but to me, if I have sex, I'm then not a virgin.)

Still no plans as-of-yet.

I'm sure there are people in my life that have running bets on when I'll finally 'do it', and with what gender of person I will do it.

As for me, I don't think about it too much.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 1:23 pm


What I'm hoping is that it'll be with someone I'm deeply in love with...what I really hope is that it's my girlfriend, but that won't be for awhile yet because of that little thing called distance. I dunno. Beyond that, really haven't thought too much about it.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 8:40 pm


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Meahhmmmm... -thinks- Probably gonna start with cuddles and kisses stressed GOT TO HAVE CUDDLES! CUDDLES ARE EVERYTHING! sweatdrop and music and CUDDLES! and more kisses... probably in a certain cabin...
PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 10:39 pm


Andi has a story...
I have lost mine.
I just want to tell everyone one thing,
MAKE SURE YOU TRUST THE PERSON.
Mine, happened all wrong.
She broke up with me, right after we did...
I regret losing it to her.

A m a z i n g A n d i


TheFoxOfRedRoses

PostPosted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 6:12 am


I'll prob lose my virginity to a wonderful woman who makes my heart pound before we even think about sex. She'll prob be like 30 when I'm 20 because I love a mature woman, not a teenage airhead. I guess I "could" end up meeting a mature 20 yearold woman but at the rate I'm at, that'd be quite a miracle. I do love my gf sarah, but I dunno if I'll lose my virginity to her or not. Were only dating on gaia right now and they don't tend to last, according to my friends crying But I do love her and I hope we do lasts, she's so good to me crying
PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 12:00 am


"Hmm... I don't know how to loose it to another girl unless it involves using some toy. I'm bi but I'm actualy trying to find a guy. Where do I think I'm going to loose it."


A bed. 3nodding
The floor. sweatdrop
Outside at night on the grass. xp
Shower. 3nodding
The couch. whee
And over a table/counter. 3nodding


"That's all that come to mind. Other then that I still think the first time will hurt. I have done some type of 'it' with another girl but I see virginity as piercing an area."

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 10:33 pm


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~Technically I lost mine when I was six, but I don’t really remember much, just the rocks against my back. Anyway, I don’t consider myself either… but when I do have sex, I want it to be with my current girlfriend when we are older, like one or two years. I don’t know, whenever the time is right and we are both ok with it and feel completely at ease.
I’ve never really thought of where I’d have sex… maybe on a bed, I think having sex outside would bring back bad memories. So indoors for now.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 3:31 am


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"Hmm... I don't know how to loose it to another girl unless it involves using some toy.


*blinks* Let's see there are fingers, tongues and many other things. Toys are not the only way to have sex between girls.

I like to think of there being several forms of virginity. Considering I lost mine before I even knew what it was, as in around 3 or 4, I would rather believe that I was a virgin until I made love to someone in a caring and loving manner, Not just sex, but that is just me. In that case I lost it to my sweetie several years back on the sofa bed. Otherwise I never had one...

Well jaa ne

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Dorian`

PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 3:57 pm


Kat - yeah, I don't really consider it "losing your virginity" unless it's a mutual-consent sort of thing. . .I think it's more of a thing that individual people have control over, unlike rape. But it's sort of like the "first kiss" thing. Once you've given it, you can't take it back. . .
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