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My friend came over to my house the other day and craked a joke about "cuting". I couldn't bring myself to tell him that I cut. Dose any one know an esay way, I don't think thare is one.

just straight up tell him silly

hun im an ex cutter and its alot easier to tell someone close to you than you would actually think...i dont know how close you are to your friend but if this person is a true friend then they will most likely say that their sorry, ask if there is something they could do, and they will most likely lay into you about how you shouldnt do that and a bunch of other s**t...Believe me I know this one very well...My ex boyfriend, my boyfriend, and my best friend just about killed me and now that I look back on it I have to laugh...Thats when I realized there are people that love you and understand you...maybe not entirely but enough to stand by your side and help you through a shitty hand that was dealt to you in the game of life....I hope everything goes well for you...PM me if you need anything else...I've been through everything and done everything and I'm not scared of what people think about it either....The best way to probably go about this is to say something along the lines of "remember that joke on cutting the other day..." and just show him you cut...then you dont have them saying 'oh no you dont...your just saying that' it cuts down the questions and thats that...

O.o Ok...im not very computer lingo savvy, so i will do my best...


One thing is to stop cutting...>it dosn't help at all...the rush and the feelings surrounding it make you feel good for a moment, but then you need to cut again, why? Because the hurt keeps coming back...Believe me, i know....I know you probably don't want this, but want it or not, even if it makes people upset, Whatever. Its the honest to the gods truth (from experience). There are MUCH more satisfying ways to make your life seem better. But, if your not willing to stop needlessly hurting yourself, then try this...(like what poised Thorns said)

bring up the joke he made, then tell him how you felt about it. I don't know why you'd want to tell him, it won't help you....Really...if he reacts badly it just might give you another "Reason" to cut.

I hope you take my advice and find other ways to make your life easier than needlessly scarring your body, and needlessly loosing blood...^^;;

If you need an open ear, i've got two.



Um...Wow...I didn't even understand that one o.O "u"? And where is all of the punctuation? Grammar? O.o It just made no sence. I know you were making fun of the spelling error (which is just lame....it was a common mistake), but to make fun of it while typing with bad grammar and puncutuation? Frankly it makes it REALLY easy for people to make fun of you...

P.S. I only make fun of improper grammar and punctuation if the person is being an idiot. Otherwise i usually kindly point out what you did wrong.

you should just tell him straight out and if he tell you your stupid then tell him at lest I told you because you care how they feel about you.