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PostPosted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 4:56 pm


Here is where I give my advice. Any one wanting advice on anything Please do not hesitate to ask me. I will give my advice on anything you want to ask about.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 4:59 pm


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I'm finding myself more and more often doing things I know I shouldn't be doing. I try to stop but my craving for attention is bigger than my will to stop. I need your help. My need for the attention of a guy is becoming bigger and bigger, and I'm trying not to act on it but it's so hard. Please pray for me.

Answer: Don't push yourself on it so hard, Your only 14 right? well someone better may be in your future. I did not have my first real boyfriend till I graduated High School in 99, Yeah I guess you could call me an 'ol foggie' on this stuff but when it comes to love you don't want to push things other wise it may end up going the wrong way.

try this: (please just do it no questions asked) ignore him for one week (or more as long as it takes) pretend he is not there till he comes to you asking if something is wrong. once he does that then tell him how you feel about him. tell him you like getting attention from him but that you are trying to give him space right now.

MOST OF ALL DO NOT PUSH THINGS, IT WILL ONLY MAKE THEM WORSE.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 9:12 am


What do you think makes a person attach to others. Like their opinion means so much that when they don't respond or are not positive it ruins the whole day. Do you know what I mean?
PostPosted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 6:07 pm


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What do you think makes a person attach to others. Like their opinion means so much that when they don't respond or are not positive it ruins the whole day. Do you know what I mean?


It is probably cause they need more self confidence. They think if they attach themselves to some one then they can be more confident about themselves but it does not always work out that way.

Send me a PM and we can talk about this to a bigger extent.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:54 pm


I have a question about families and Christian living.

My husband grew up Catholic but doesn't practice. I grew up without religion until high school, when I found the Evangelical Covenant church, but it was something I had to hide from my family.

Now we are married and have two daughters. I take them to church and read to them from their little children's Bible, but I am wondering if you have any suggestions for introducing things like prayer to my family. I would like for us to say grace before meals, start praying more regularly, and be able to talk about God as a family. It just seems so hard to jump in and start doing something we've never done before, and I'm not sure how to ask my husband about this because it's not really something we have talked about much. I do know that when I told him going to church was important to me, he started going, no questions asked. So he might be receptive, I'm just not sure.

Sorry for the long question. What I am ultimately asking is, how does a family suddenly begin to incorporate these things into its life that have never been part of it before?
PostPosted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 2:10 pm


Sorry for our delay in answering this question we have been with out net access till just reciently. Give me a few more days to read over your question then I will give you an answer.

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