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The-Korean-Sting

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 12:37 pm


Ok my pastor (MY DAD!), gives the usual sermon every wednesday. But he's so BORING! I can't stand it, I just wanna rip my ears out. But whenever I listen to some other pastors, I understand them completely, I enjoy the sermon and I find the meaning, but what can I do?
PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 2:14 pm


What's the sin your asking about? Not listening to your father's sermons? I don't think it's a sin, it's just disrespectful.

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Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 2:22 pm


So ask your dad permission to go to another church in the same denomination. It's not fair for him to expect you to listen to the same person on Sunday as well as through the week, you need to listen to other people as well.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 2:28 pm


He definately won't let me do that...

The-Korean-Sting


Sarcastic_Angel

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:22 pm


It's not a sin. It's just the fact that he's your dad. You live with him 24-7, so whenever he talks to you, you hear the same stuff that are in his sermons. Listening to one preacher all the time isn't good. My church has 2 pastors that work together, but we get different styles of preaching, and different ideas continually. Plus they allow some of the youth pastors to preach sometimes too. Just talk to your dad and explain the situation, and see if he has a solution.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 7:53 pm


The-Korean-Sting
He definately won't let me do that...

Why not? Just tell him the truth: It's hard to focus when it's you DAD standing in the pulpit.

Seriously I have the same problem with a close family friend, when you know every sin and odd aspect of a persons life it makes them a lot more 'human' and a lot less 'preacher' not that that's necessarily a bad thing, but when you feel more equal with them it takes away from the message because he says do task #1 and yout hink "Why he dosn't," it's personal opinion, but if it's taking away from your walk, I don't see why he wouldn't let oyu, just come in a mature way, the fear of the situation is the worst part.

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mystia

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 8:31 pm


Its not a sin. Different people are touched by different kinds of preachers, they find relevance in what applies to them, thats why God's given us different gifts and abilities. mrgreen

And if you have difficulty in listening to your dad preach and really want to go to listen to different pastors, talk to your dad about it. If you think he won't listen, just pray about it. Pray that God will open up his heart to the idea.

Hope it was at all helpful. Godbless! xd
PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 10:23 pm


The-Korean-Sting
Ok my pastor (MY DAD!), gives the usual sermon every wednesday. But he's so BORING! I can't stand it, I just wanna rip my ears out. But whenever I listen to some other pastors, I understand them completely, I enjoy the sermon and I find the meaning, but what can I do?
no, not at all and perhaps if other fell the same way you should explain to your father that maybe he isn't spiritually exciting it might help get the church going if the church has the same problem you do, and it might help them feel more alive even if they don't.

Sir BlackHeart


tfklovr

PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 10:58 pm


My dad's a pastor too, and he always asks me questions about the sermons when they're finished. That's always a motivator to listen and pay attention. Try talking to your dad about the message afterwards, and so you'll have to pay attention so you'll know what you're talking about.
PostPosted: Wed May 30, 2007 10:29 am


i would try giving your dad some advice to make him a better pastor!

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saraiismad

PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 12:55 pm


The-Korean-Sting
Ok my pastor (MY DAD!), gives the usual sermon every wednesday. But he's so BORING! I can't stand it, I just wanna rip my ears out. But whenever I listen to some other pastors, I understand them completely, I enjoy the sermon and I find the meaning, but what can I do?


maybe you have a hard time listening to him cuz he's your dad and you have to listen to him every day of the week
PostPosted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 10:58 pm


Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori
So ask your dad permission to go to another church in the same denomination. It's not fair for him to expect you to listen to the same person on Sunday as well as through the week, you need to listen to other people as well.


I love to go to church and hear the sermons...but I have to admit, if the guy's monotone...and I'm tired....there'll be snoozing...^^U

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Sarcastic_Angel

PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 9:01 am


you could always see if he would agree to hiring an assistant pastor. like I said before, the main services have two pastors that preach on and off. just recently, since our senior pastor is traveling more during the summer, we have the high school pastor in there more. and in the middle school and high school classes, we have two high school pastors, plus a middle school pastor, and they all preach to both groups. That way we don't have the same guy standing up front all the time, and we get to listen to different teaching styles. So you might want to see if he would do that, if he won't let you attend another church, or anything else.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 6:30 pm


no....me dad ask me what me think of his sermons, good or borring, not talk about the sermons themselfs.
dose you dad work at home????
even if, me dad never talk to me much, he always working....
what he did do was punish me (spanking), other than that mom did all the talking.

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