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 Posted: Sun May 06, 2007 11:24 pm
Well, as you most likely gatherd, I'm pretty confused. On and off for most of my life I'v been wondering about my gender and where I fit in with that. I'm not a girl, but I'm not exactly a boy either. I like having a female body (well, when it comes to boobs it depends on the day), but I wish I was precived as male. If it was possble, I would dress as a guy everyday, everywhere. Sure, I'd be a pretty darn girly guy *loves makeup too much*, but...still a guy. But I do NOT want male...parts...they seem very impractical to me. The only reason I dress like a girl most of the time now is because I can't pull off looking like a guy...>.< (suggestions with that would also be appreaciated...heh...)
I'v been thinking about this on and off forever...and Im still confused...
Does what I am have a name?
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 4:50 am
There are some girls out here like that and they refer to themselves as f** Bois. Some even go as far as taking male hormones to get facial hair and lower their breast size, but don't plan to have the full surgery.
Not sure if you;ll like the label, but that is what they choose to call themselves.
jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 5:12 pm
Would that just be someone attracted to men, though? (Well, if I'm reading the bliped out word right) I'm only attacted to very few men...and alot of them are gay...but I'm primarly a girl person...if i'm making sense...heh.
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2007 5:40 am
Nope, it is actually a group of lesbians that go by that term. It comes from the Drag King Community so don't be confused by the f** comment. It is just the gay community trying to reclaim labels and make them mean different things depending on who they are referring too. They used the word f** because they consider themselves still gay because they are women who love women, however they dress and act more like men, but don't want the end surgery... does that make any sense at all?
Kat
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2007 5:24 pm
Yea, that makes sense. Still not quite me though...but the closest I'v found. ^_^ Thanks
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 12:45 pm
Serpent Son Yea, that makes sense. Still not quite me though...but the closest I'v found. ^_^ Thanks
Well, if you check the labels list I posted earlier you will find a list of different terms. One doesn't always have to choose a label, but if you feel you need one then look for something that suits you and you feel comfortable with.
For example look at me. I'm a boiish girl who is very Andro, wears a lot of clothes that look male, but are actually for females. I'm considered a Prince and a wife to my wife and would prefer to be called a dyke over lesbian. Which is how I came to the term "Boi Dyke" There is also "Birl" for other Andro types who don't like the "Boi" label and so on and so forth. The world is a diverse place with many different people, just don't let your labels rule you. They are not strict rules or guild lines, just something that allows you to find your niche in society.
Well, good luck.
jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 9:32 pm
i think im the same way. i always dress like a guy and sometimes even bind, but im pretty sure im not a guy. the thing about lables that bug me, is that a lot of ppl stereotype. but i guess with all the new lables, their is probably one that is more of what ur loking for. i often think of myself as a 'boi', but i am who i am 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 3:17 pm
I may be a bit late in responding t this, but yes, there is a name for that. It's called genderqueer. Some people say bigender, gender variant, ********.
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