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I wouldn't stress over it too much, that whole event was pretty 'B.S.' if you ask me. Your presence around him can not just 'morph' who he is and even if somehow it did the fault wouldnt be yours. His stress levels are problems of his own. When he is stressed out with you he's in the reaction state so it's his fault for getting to point A in the first place, then furthermore to point B. After reading the conversation I'm absolutely certain he was just looking for a reaction and doesn't mean what he says. There are too many holes in his theory especially if he, as he says, can't explain.

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Towns Drama, there should be a disclaimer when you log into towns for it. Nah but I believe the reason why it happens all the time is beacuse we are kids and honestly I know it will be denied but those who start it actually enjoy the drama cause it draws attention to them, they are able to stress their points, and it gives them something to be hostile about y'know? I'm not saying it's not a stressful 'thing' but like I said we're young. We (in most cases) really don't have anything worth worrying about yet in our lives so the conflict between our gaia peers is in such high priority. Nonetheless it doesn't make a bit of difference, guys. the balls are inert (Ha ha piccolo joke). or in other words it doesn't matter cause in due time (shorter than longer in most cases) it'll be a thing of the past and we'll all have some new gaia event to stress over if we choose to participate wink

About living with your father. That is a very complicated decision and I'm sure I'll be writing a response here for awhile. Alright, lets start with ground rules. "Why do I feel like I should/shouldn't do this" "Will this help me with what I have chosen to do in the next X-Months/Years" "Is this really what I want?...Why?"

I'll just sum up your entry in a nutshell:

"I'm considering living with my father because I need some alone time, I'm having a difficult time living with my mother and I think it can help me pursue what I want in life"

I think you should do a lot more thinking before you make such a big decision because your desire for alone time is probably not all as great as it sounds. If you think about it you're going to have looooooads of alone time in about oh 19 months ;P - Probably a little more. Not a lot is really going to change in your ways of thinking and ability to do things for your music if you stay with your mother for another 19 months (in my opinion) - The point I'm stressing the most is that you'll have a huge chunk of your life to do whatever you desire. To have the alone time you want, your own personal space but what you have now may not really be all that bad. The lifestyle situation you are in at the moment has an experiation date and in due time you'll be on your own regardless. If I were in your situation I'd just enjoy the company of my family as much as I can until those 20 months come along and you'll be far too focused on building your life with me to really spend the quality time with your mother. Eventually you will have your alone time, your work to keep you busy and hopefully a nice place to come home to where I'll be living as well and you'll have that for many years I hope.

But if the differences between your mother and you are that drastic to where you can't stand it. To where it's actually depressing living where you are and you absolutley just need your alone time then there is nothing wrong with considering something that may be better for you. Though there are less drastic moves you could make such as getting out of the house more, pick up a few hobbies or something instead of having to completely leave your current home.

I'll support your decision whatever it may be, just make sure you really think it over and ask yourself after you have "Is this really what I want though"

Either way I'm sure life will be good to us both I just hope your father wont hate me xd

P.S. another thing you may want to think about is if this decision is just to run away from problems rather than deal and cope with them. It could be a fun experiment to see if you could find some peace of mind despite the little dilema giong on with your mom. Who knows you could even realize that it may not really be all that much of a problem after all wink

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Another good point. Yeah if you decide to go through with it it would be nice to keep a good relationship with your mom so she doesn't hate me or something! Hahaha