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 Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 11:41 am
I really dont know what to do. I'm A transexual - Male in Female body.
I never Really had a problem with anyone pushing apon me i was a girl in till i sprouted Brest. then a couple of years ago my mother started to throw out my boy clothes and replace them with female ones. (and that is including short skirt slut tops and many other skimpy things i dont touch.)
and when i wear them i feel so stupid. She also pushing for me to get a boyfriend. but i have no sexual interest in them. She wants me to have kids and all thet other stuff i dont want. and at the same time she know i have a girlfriend. and i have been with her for over 5 years.
I been fighting this for too long now. My pride is hair i like it long. I never been told i was a female or been treated like a female with my best buddies. Now for the last little while even around my male friends they been treating me just like that. and its all because of these feminine clothes. I have my hoodies and stuff but on a hot day i only have these pink shirts. and its bugging the hell out of me.
What should i do?
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2007 10:47 pm
well, i think one of the first things u should do is ot think like urself (dont do everything ur mom tells u to do). ur mom has to realize that u and her are two seporate ppl. as for what cloths to wear, im sorry, but i think im unclear on ur born gender. sorry sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 12:49 pm
he is born female if I understand correctly.
And I pdefinately aggree you need to be your own person as much as you possibley can smile
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 1:29 pm
I'd suggest having a talk with your mother. Explain to her that not all girls wear skirts and maybe tell her that you don't feel comfortable in skirts. I know I feel rather exposed in dresses so avoid them like the plague. Try to get her to understand your side. Don't try to get her to allow you to wear mens clothing just yet, just stuck to andro type styles to get her used to the idea and at least allow you to express yourself a little more.
Well, I wish you luck
jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:24 pm
dragonrock18903 well, i think one of the first things u should do is ot think like urself (dont do everything ur mom tells u to do). ur mom has to realize that u and her are two seporate ppl. as for what cloths to wear, im sorry, but i think im unclear on ur born gender. sorry sweatdrop I'm born Female physically, but my mind is Male
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 8:29 pm
Kims_Prince I'd suggest having a talk with your mother. Explain to her that not all girls wear skirts and maybe tell her that you don't feel comfortable in skirts. I know I feel rather exposed in dresses so avoid them like the plague. Try to get her to understand your side. Don't try to get her to allow you to wear mens clothing just yet, just stuck to andro type styles to get her used to the idea and at least allow you to express yourself a little more. Well, I wish you luck jaa ne Kat Thanks but my dad today told my mother to leave me alone on what i wear. ^.^ he got me a couple of men dress shirts and a new pair of cargos. He dosen't care what I am just as long i'am happy.
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Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2007 9:13 am
Natorra Red-wolf Thanks but my dad today told my mother to leave me alone on what i wear. ^.^ he got me a couple of men dress shirts and a new pair of cargos. He dosen't care what I am just as long i'am happy. Good to hear things worked out for you. jaa ne and hope things continue to go well. Kat
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Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2007 10:05 am
Natorra Red-wolf Thanks but my dad today told my mother to leave me alone on what i wear. ^.^ he got me a couple of men dress shirts and a new pair of cargos. He dosen't care what I am just as long i'am happy. Your very lucky to have a father like that. My mam hates that i wear guy cloths but i found that wearing jeans, t-shirt and then putting a shirt over the top helps alot...actually that is like my style that i practically always wear since the shirts are baggy and hide anything and just make you look more male. Hope that helps hun.
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 7:17 pm
Wolv Project Natorra Red-wolf Thanks but my dad today told my mother to leave me alone on what i wear. ^.^ he got me a couple of men dress shirts and a new pair of cargos. He dosen't care what I am just as long i'am happy. Your very lucky to have a father like that. My mam hates that i wear guy cloths but i found that wearing jeans, t-shirt and then putting a shirt over the top helps alot...actually that is like my style that i practically always wear since the shirts are baggy and hide anything and just make you look more male. Hope that helps hun. ^.^ i wear i tight t shirt underneath then a male dress shirt on top. And jeans and cargo pants are love~
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 5:07 pm
Natorra Red-wolf Wolv Project Natorra Red-wolf Thanks but my dad today told my mother to leave me alone on what i wear. ^.^ he got me a couple of men dress shirts and a new pair of cargos. He dosen't care what I am just as long i'am happy. Your very lucky to have a father like that. My mam hates that i wear guy cloths but i found that wearing jeans, t-shirt and then putting a shirt over the top helps alot...actually that is like my style that i practically always wear since the shirts are baggy and hide anything and just make you look more male. Hope that helps hun. ^.^ i wear i tight t shirt underneath then a male dress shirt on top. And jeans and cargo pants are love~ Oww Cargo heart heart Army pants are great as well lol i keep steal my mates (he ish in the army) I gotta get white shirts though all mine are black....i wear to much black lols
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 5:58 pm
Get a job and pay for the clothes yourself?
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