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 Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 9:45 pm
I'm think my v****a may be abnormally small. I can only fit one finger in there. It may be because I'm Asian, but I still fairly certain that's smaller than it should be. So how many fingers can you fit up there? Anyone have painful sexual experiences due to smallness? And does anyone know what would be considered 'average'? Also, do you think it would be inconvinient to be too small?
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 2:50 pm
Hmm, this could get graphic, I'm pretty sure I'm average though *shrug* No problems in that area thus far so...good ?? lol funny topic
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Metamorphosis Lycanthropy
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 5:45 pm
I don't think there's a such a thing as an "average" v****a size... I think it contours (gets used to) to what you... *thinks of how to tone it down*
To what you give it, it just takes a while... it streches and elongates, so eventually I think you will be able to fit two fingers up there... It'll just take time (and practice) though I'm not encouraging anything, you're encouraging yourself D< so um... uh... yeah be patient? eek
I used to fit one finger in there but after relaxing and trying two it worked... after a while, (I CAN'T EXPLAIN IT gonk )
This topic is awkward sweatdrop no offense.
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 6:19 pm
Meamorphosis is correct that is does stretch over time and when one relaxes so you should not worry too much about it. Just be careful and take things slow as to not tear any tissue and over time the skin with stretch a little further. So worry not.
If people find this topic too uncomfortable tell me and we will consider if it should be locked.
jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 6:51 pm
The size of my v****a is similar, but that's pretty much because I haven't been, well, exercising - the more experience you get, the looser you'll get. I would get into how I'm kinda weirded out about my labiae but I don't know how appropriate that would be . . .
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 4:58 am
kleokriesel The size of my v****a is similar, but that's pretty much because I haven't been, well, exercising - the more experience you get, the looser you'll get. I would get into how I'm kinda weirded out about my labiae but I don't know how appropriate that would be . . .
It wouldn't be inappropriate. We are just keeping the graphic talks about sex down, but if it is a serious concern then I see no reason not to talk about our Vulvas. I think we can be open about this and be serious without to become childish.
By the way. I was just reading a beauty mag about this very subject and I found it rather weird because the mag was talking about new v****a plastics that are being used to tighten the v****a area to make it smaller. It would seem this is a rather common plastic surgery for women to get now a days. So It would appear that many older women crave for a smaller v****a. *shrugs*
Just thought I would mention this so other feel a bit less uncomfortable about having a small v****a.
jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 5:03 pm
Kims_Prince kleokriesel The size of my v****a is similar, but that's pretty much because I haven't been, well, exercising - the more experience you get, the looser you'll get. I would get into how I'm kinda weirded out about my labiae but I don't know how appropriate that would be . . .
It wouldn't be inappropriate. We are just keeping the graphic talks about sex down, but if it is a serious concern then I see no reason not to talk about our Vulvas. I think we can be open about this and be serious without to become childish.
By the way. I was just reading a beauty mag about this very subject and I found it rather weird because the mag was talking about new v****a plastics that are being used to tighten the v****a area to make it smaller. It would seem this is a rather common plastic surgery for women to get now a days. So It would appear that many older women crave for a smaller v****a. *shrugs*
Just thought I would mention this so other feel a bit less uncomfortable about having a small v****a.
jaa ne
Kat
It just weirds me out sometimes . . .
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 5:07 pm
Being the american I am, I think they get plastic surgery for that not because they want it smaller, but more or less for a false virginity. Or for a man's pleasure. If I remember correctly, anyway.
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 9:53 am
what a very personal thread lol umm for my 2pence worth ... women are built differently , I have had a child and I am still small .. it doesnt bother me or my girlfriend if anything I'm quite proud of the fact lol ..
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 12:06 am
kleokriesel *whew* ok. My friends and I watch cheap porn together, it is soooo funny. Cheap porn > adult swim. Anyway, sometimes there will be a cheap porn star with huuuuuge inner labia. My friends will be all, "Wow, she could put her fingers through her labia piercings, flap her arms and fly away!" I laugh along because that's pretty frickin funny, but I also feel awkward because my vulva looks the same. Has ever since puberty. There is NO POSSIBLE WAY I'm getting plastic surgery; the one person I've had sex actually worried that her labia were too small compared to mine!
It just weirds me out sometimes . . .
As Sparklemuff stated every woman is built different and you should not worry to much, unless it is causing you a problem. I've heard of cases of intersex having labia that are inches long and having to get them reduced. It all depending on you and what makes you feel comfortable. Try not to worry to much and just know that there are many different people in the world and many different vulvas as well.
Sparklemuff - thank you for sharing. I know this thread by seem too personal but I do believe we shouldn't feel ashamed to talk about our bodies. I know how hard it can be to find someone to talk about and I'm glad to give people a place to talk about these thing. So thank you again for sharing such a personal thing because the more we talk about this the less embarrassing it will be.
ShadowTora - Actually the article stated that the reason was to increase a woman's orgasm and not much about a man's pleasure. *shrugs* Considering I don't really care how small or wide it is I can't see why someone would go through plastic surgery to tighten their v****a.
well, jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 7:47 am
eek Ok, That's...weird. I don't think I'd want to get plastic surgery down there just to increase orgasms... eek That's just...creepy.
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 6:36 pm
Ok it may sound weird but I am trying to keep it pg-13 so keep that in mind...... well when I still had my v-card I could only do 1 figner, but after I lost it I can do a lot more. So if you still have your v-catd then that might be why you can only do 1 because it is not streched out from sex.
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 12:15 pm
Kougagirl16: I lost my "V-Card" (lol good one) a long while ago to my exboyfriend and have been sexually active with guys in the past, now being in a steady and sexually active relationship with a girl I'm really only comfortable with 2 fingers so losing ones virginity may not help all women "loosen up" if you will
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 11:49 pm
well
if your too tight for 2 fingers then you should consider to use Lube
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 1:10 am
This is kind of an uncomfortable question for me, but, hopefully not going out of bounds here. Despite being sexually active for a while now, I'm still uncomfortable with anything, er, inside me. One finger doesn't really hurt much, only a dull ache, but....it doesn't feel good. I'd like it too, so we still try every now and then, but I'm too embarrassed to go to a doctor and I'm hoping it will feel good someday.
Once again, I'm really sorry for the ultra-personal question, but this is a personal thead. Does it just take time to stretch out? Lubrication isn't a problem, I'm very comfortable with my partner, and she's gentle....is there anything I'm missing, or is there just a possibility that this will never feel good for me?
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