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 Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 10:50 am
okay, well, i suppose this is proof to our few younger members that no, adults aren't always the mature ones. and adults have immature fights too.
here is some background.
there was one main 21+ thread that we all hung out in. for the most part it was okay. you had your cliques but everyone got along.
then the queen of the thread was "coupled" with this guy who decided he was going to OWN the thread and boss it around. meet wyld and cappie.
whenever one was around, the other would ignore EVERYONE else. they'd post to each other and ignore all of us. then when one left, the other would mope and lament about their "lover" being gone, and still ignore the rest of us who were there.
there was one gentleman who liked to stalk me and tell me how to live my life in PMs. i would delete his PMs, so he took it to the thread. the drama went on for PAGES. basically it was all my fault and not his. i eventually put him on ignore so i coudn't see his posts, but others could, and would quote him in arguments so i'd still see all he was saying about me.
anyways, then i butted heads with cappie. god forbid you do that, since he apparently OWNS the thread, and if he doesn't like what you say or do, he's onto you. but oh, if things make him upset? he's all "im SO leaving this thread forever!!!11" then comes back an hour, or a day later.
wtf?!
anyways i got tired of all this pettiness. i wanted a place to just chat and hang out on gaia with friends, WITHOUT the drama. so, i started the 21+ Alternative thread.
AT came with me since apparently she's just a lemming who i brainwashed. *eyeroll*
so, now and again drama's come up. now and again, regulars from that thread come into our thread and say hi, and i'll be polite but i dont get chatty with them. i'm almost positive many of those regs lurk and read our thread (but i can't talk -- i lurk and read the other 21+ thread sometimes, i'm human and curious, after all -- i can admit that) and i've got a good feeling that some of the random posters that show up and disappear, are mules.
oh well!
anyways. i know some spatting still goes on, and it's frustrating, and we all could use a place to rant. because ranting is HUMAN, not necessarily "immature", and is a way to get it out of our systems.
do it here, if need be. smile
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 10:51 am
*stomps in and cracks my whip and grins* nice.
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artistic tempertantrum Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 10:55 am
lol i think of borat when you say that.
'eees niiiiiice!'
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 10:57 am
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artistic tempertantrum Vice Captain
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artistic tempertantrum Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 10:59 am
*gigglesnorts* Love da poll!!!
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 11:02 am
Which reminds me, the gigglesnort....SOOOOoooo not cappies!!!
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artistic tempertantrum Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 11:09 am
OH I KNOW. that is such absolute crap. you were always the one doing it, then wyld did it off you, then cappie comes along and of course that means he owns everything, and the stars and moon and sun....
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 11:16 am
And its not like i'm trying to say i INVENTED the word or anything, just that it wasn't really something anyone else did in that thread.
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artistic tempertantrum Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 11:20 am
no, i definitely get what you're saying. it's total crap.
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 5:54 am
grace note OH I KNOW. that is such absolute crap. you were always the one doing it, then wyld did it off you, then cappie comes along and of course that means he owns everything, and the stars and moon and sun.... There was once that I got the best out of everyone in that thread. I just simply called them 'old people' and they got mad at me. I just laughed and left and left that is. They actually haven't have a major encounter with me in terms on arguement. Again that s**t is hilarious rofl
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 8:09 am
well, i realise it's immature of me, i know.. but i do not forgive easily, and when i DO forgive, i don't forget.
i dont like that some people from the other thread are trickling over to ours.
i do not mean the people who were impartial and NEVER a part of the mess. that i have no problem with. i also have no problem that anyone's friends with the people who *were* part of the mess.
what i have a problem with is c. robin, who sat there and watched cappie and his little crew shred me that one day (and AT for being on my side) and did nothing, now bopping over like it's no big deal. and queensknight? she was (is?) cappie's BIGGEST lackey. she was still ranting and raving about me/that whole situation pages upon pages after i left.
now she's coming over, too?
i'm sure there's mules, but i won't judge that. i also realise their thread is all but dead now, after over 8500 pages. but while i opened a thread here to rant and b***h about it... i will be damned if they are going to come over to the home we made to get away from that, and wreck that for me (and others) too.
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 4:01 pm
i wanted to post this here because it's my feelings on the matter, and just so that it's here, too, so that people can see where i'm coming from... so maybe you might not think i'm SO crazy, or, can see WHY i am. mrgreen
it's ok, lol. i obviously can't keep my mouth shut on it either. so i'm gonna say all this to kind of sum up where i'm at on it and why, and then for the sake of those friends who are impartial, or have nothing to do with it and have been in this thread since its start pretty much, i will do my best to let it go. i know the person in question (or any lurk-readers) aren't even going to pay attention to what i say, or won't read it all, or will not focus on what i'm saying or even try to, but i'll still say this, calmly and in detail, and just once.
i will not lie -- i am not happy that it appears some of them are filtering over here. i have loved this thread for the sole fact that none of Them are in it. it's been calm, peaceful, fun, funny, and the guild is a deeper (and fun, and funny) side of that, and becca and i are ecstatic that in just a few days the guild is already rockin', and safe.
i guess this makes me a "loser" or something, but i hold my IRL friends to the same standards. be real with me, be who you are, don't be a lemming and start insulting me just to make the current "leader" happy, esp. if you don't even know what was going on that led up to certain events (ie: pages 7279/7280). i am the same person on the internet as i am IRL, therefore, i handle situations the same.
i do not forgive easily, and i never forget. some people say this is unhealthy or immature... but what i know is that it means the friends i DO have? who DO stick with me through things like this (be it IRL or online) ? are amazing friends. and i would do anything for them. i know they'd do anything for me, and the respect is deep, and mutual. i would drop anything and fly out to becca if she needed me, or fly her here. same with friends in other forums. same with a few co-workers, or my brother. all of whom have seen me through situations not unlike things like this, or other situations far more petty, and still others that were far more serious!
so yeah, this is just the internet. it's just gaia, it's just pixels. but there are real people behind these keyboards and pixels. some people try to pretend they are something they aren't. some people act like bad asses because it's easy to do hiding behind a screen.
but some of us type exactly how we talk. what you see here is what you'd hear on the phone, or see if we went out for coffee, or you saw me bump into a friend who wronged me or someone i love, etc. i am certainly not perfect, and i guess then, that this is a flaw. i apologise for that. but NOT for my stance and how i feel. i will use the ignore feature if queen feels she just HAS to socialise in this thread that was made to get away from the nuke-freaks and cappie bandwagon people (of which she is one of).
unfortunately IRL there's no ignore feature, so it's harder to do so! icon_biggrin.gif icon_biggrin.gif icon_biggrin.gif (especially if ya work with the person.... ie: the EMT i dated who then tried to get me fired because i broke up with him. we are now on opposite shifts, thank our higher ups!) but wouldn't it be great if there was?! icon_wink.gif
anyways, okay. that's my stance. to purple, and omega, and BBP, and others who are not involved in this drama and never were, i very much apologise. but i assure you no fights are breaking out or anything, i'm just speaking on it. i hope this doesn't make you scatter away from the thread.
love, heathyr
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