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 Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2007 7:33 pm
Hi I'm Kaylin I have two kids Christen and Ethian. My boyfriends has been a real pain. He's hitting me more and threatening me more and we argue a lot more. He said that he would take away me kids and leave me on the streets. What should I do?
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Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2007 9:22 am
Kaylin, when he hits you does he leave bruises? If so you need to have someone take pictures. If I were in your position I would take the kids and go to a battered women's shelter and there they will help you get back on your feet. If you are that afraid of him you can go to the courts and get a restraining order against him from coming near you and the kids, cause if he is going to hit you then whats to stop him from hitting the kids? There is a lot of help out there that you can get if you want it..
No woman has to put up with that!! Do your parents live nearby, you can take the kids and go stay with them till you can get your life together.. Don't let him be the one to put you out on the street, I know it can be scary especially when you think you have nowhere to go, but there is always a way to get away... You can't let him make you be a victem...
You will be in my prayers...
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Mystress_Gin Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2007 9:30 am
Mystress_Athena Kaylin, when he hits you does he leave bruises? If so you need to have someone take pictures. If I were in your position I would take the kids and go to a battered women's shelter and there they will help you get back on your feet. If you are that afraid of him you can go to the courts and get a restraining order against him from coming near you and the kids, cause if he is going to hit you then whats to stop him from hitting the kids? There is a lot of help out there that you can get if you want it.. No woman has to put up with that!! Do your parents live nearby, you can take the kids and go stay with them till you can get your life together.. Don't let him be the one to put you out on the street, I know it can be scary especially when you think you have nowhere to go, but there is always a way to get away... You can't let him make you be a victem... You will be in my prayers... My parents kicked me out and don't want me to be near them so he's the only thing I've got. So I can't leave.
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Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 10:35 pm
kaylin you can always go to a women's shelter.... I know it is hard to do and I just know there is someone out there that can help....If I had the room and the money I would bring to where I am so you could start all over.... I feel for you... Where do you live maybe I can help you find the resources online so you can get some help.... Let me know if you want me to do that for you...
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Mystress_Gin Vice Captain
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NeverBitter_AllDelicious Captain
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Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 7:55 pm
Kaylin, Mystress_Athena is right. No woman deserves to be treated the way he is treating you. And like she said, what's to stop him from hitting the kids? Is there any other family besides your parents that you can go to for help? If not, you can go to the police. Tell them how scared you are and show them your bruises if you have them. They can get help for you. I'm sure you could even go to a local hospital or health department and get information on how to get help. You need to do this for your own saftey and your children's. Please. If there is anything I can do, let me know.
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 7:12 pm
They are both right. You have to leave this sicko and take your kids. Many women's shelter's are "hidden" so that men can't find them. Please do not stay with this man.
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