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 Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 6:27 pm
SO WE MET IN REHAB, ME A ALCOHOLIC, HIM A SPEED ADDICT. ITS BEEN 8 MONTHS NOW AND WE HAVE BOTH BEEN CLEAN FOR ABOUT 6 OF THOSE MONTHS. UP UNTIL LAST WEEK THAT IS, HE HAS STARTED USING AGAIN, IM NOT TOTALLY AGAINST DRUGS BUT IF YOU CANT CONTROL YOUR SELF YOUR STUFFED AND HE CANT. HE HAS USED EVERY DAY NOW FOR 6 DAYS AND SHOWS NO SIGN OF STOPPING, I SPOKEN TO HIM ABOUT IT BUT HE THINKS HE CAN STOP ANYTIME, I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY BUT I CANT GO BACK TO THAT KIND OF LIFESTYLE. IV GOT TO BRAKE IT OFF. IT SUX. I FEEL LIKE s**t, LIKE I SHOULD HELP HIM GET THROUGH IT, BUT I CANT HELP HIM IF HE DONT WANT MY HELP.
YEAH THATS IT, JUST NEEDED TO VENT, LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK I SHOULD DO.
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 11:12 am
i was in abusive relationship. you know not a very good thing to be around. he said he wouldn't hit me any more so i stuck around. he hit me again after being with him for about 7-8 months and i looked at him told him he had his chance to make things right and he screwed up. i know it might be a hard thing to do, and even if you really like the guy, he shouldn't be doing stuff like that when he knows you have a problem. tell him if he keeps it up your leavening. but you have to stand your ground. if your going to say it you have to follow with it. otherwise its just an empty threat and he will keep doing it with out a second thought. i mean you can move out and like a month or 2 if he has really changed then go ahead and give it another chance. but if he doesn't change at all then would you really want to be with someone that doesn't want to try to make things work?
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Double Agent Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 7:10 pm
SO ITS OVER, HE GOT PAID AND SPENT THE RENT MONEY ON SPEED, SO MUCH FOR BEING ABLE TO CONTOL HIMSELF. I DONT NEED THAT CRAP IN MY LIFE, SO THATS IT, WERE OVER. ITS SAD AND IM UNHAPPY, BUT ILL GET OVER IT AND HE WILL REALISE WHAT HE LOST. THANKS FOR YOUR MESSAGE DOUBLE AGENT.
SMILE AND B HAPPY PEOPLE
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 6:55 pm
dont be sad, i understadn that your sad about your loss, but think about how much more you gained. your going to have abetter life, and it looks like your off to a good star, taking contorl of your own life and not letting other people bring you down.. so your right smile and b happy biggrin heart
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Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 3:41 am
THANKS DOUBLE AGENT, AND YOUR RIGHT I AM BETTER OFF AND I GET TO ENJOY BEING SINGLE AGAIN biggrin
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 11:21 pm
just dont forget to be safe
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