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 Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 11:27 pm
Hey, just something i want to ask some opinions about.
Me and my Girlfriend are both shy around each other. Me more than her. It's difficult for me to act natural, talk to her, blah blah. I'm sure you all know what i mean. She's kinda that way to, but not nearly as bad as I am.
Not only that, but since we met my last year of middle school, and she had one more year, the past year most of our contact has been over the internet. We aren't able to meet up very often. Luckily, this year we will both be in the same high school, so we can see each other alot then.
It's been a long wait, but i'm sure it will be worth it.
Basically, i just want some tips on what i should too. As a shy person, what can I do to show i love her? How to overcome shyness. How to get closer to her.
Just, any tips or advice in general would be really appreciated.
And, she's my first, so i'm completely new. Even simple stuff would e nice to hear.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 8:26 am
well, Andy, being a well seasoned dater myself, I could try to help out. The first thing I would suggest is just to start by holding hands and hugging. You don't need to just dive head-long into the relationship. You've been apart for a year and will need a little time to get back in the swing of things. Take things slow and you'll eventually work your way up to other things, but for now stick to the simple things.
hope I helped,
~+~Sarine~+~
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 11:53 am
That helps, yes.
I don't think we'd really do anything more than hugging or holding hands anyway, though. We've only hugged a few times, and never held hands. We weren't together very long at all before we went to seperate schools.
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Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 5:18 pm
Allright... I see her tomorrow.
But lately, I think i've been... doing something wrong.
I've been giving her several things... just over gaia.
I gave her a large boquet of pink chrysanthiums i gathered in towns...
An jacket that was on her wish list...
Nothing huge. She just replied with "Thank-you, Fluffy! >.<"
and that was it... (Fluffy is my nickname from her)
But what kinda concerns me is in RL she asked me to pick something up from a store (a 10 dollar clothing thing) for her, since she wouldn't be able to make it. (it was a sale) She said she'd pay me back.
I said not to worry about it, i'd pay for it.
But, she strictly refused... she even sounded a bit agitated.
Am I like, smothering her or something like that? Is it something I should worry about?
I'd like a quick reply, if at all possible...
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Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 3:23 pm
I doubt she feels smothered as yuo haven't seen each other all that much, but worried that you will start doing everything for her, girls feel guilty when people close to them buy stuff for them, well I do anyway xd . Just tell her you really don't mind and that you like spending money on her, but don't do it to often or she will start worrying again. ((this is just my opinion, i don't know for sure!))
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Posted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 12:36 pm
Thanks. It wasn't as big a deal as i thought... ^^;
It probobly wasn't even worth me posting about, but oh well.
Anyway, I think i found out why she refused to let me pay. Talking to a friend of hers, it turns out she's actually pretty rich... does jobs for relatives that pay her well. In our online conversation with her, I think I mentioned how i'm pretty broke, so that may have been why she refused to let me pay.
In any case, i guess it's not really a big deal.
I saw her the other day at school for the first time. We hugged and talked a bit... we both have long way to go to being completely comfortable around each other, but i can wait. ^_^ It was a good day...
I'm not even really sure why i've been posting stuff here... It's all pretty unneeded.
I guess it's just nice to have somewhere to type/say stuff. =/
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Posted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 1:16 pm
Good for you, I'm glad things are going well mrgreen
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