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i now realize why the bible is against premarital sex. it isnt trying to cheat you out of pleasure anythng, contrary to popular belief. it is against premarital sex, especially as teens, because marriage signifies a new level of maturity and understanding. sex, as it is supposed to be done, should be natural with no outsde sources such as condoms or birth control. it is meant to make you and your lover feel great about being with eachother, not just make yourself feel physically good cuz u got a little horny. but the bible is against it because more han 99.9 percent of unmarried couples arent mature enough to raise a child properly and with love, being able to provide for it and giving it all of your devotion and attention and focus. sex itself is a wonderful act and is not sinful if done for the right intentions, which DO NOT include wanting to make yourself feel good for a few moments. sex draws two people even closer, as well as pleasuring eachother and yourself. that is why masturbation is also stupid, because it is solely a lustful and using act, an act of selfish uncaring.
when you have had sex and are then quite fearful that you may become a parent, you then realize that you have a mistake. as a teen more than any other people, you fear for the child as well as yourself, but mainly the possible child. you fear that you will not be able to provide for your child, and that your child was a mistake, not a wanted child that you planned for and were ready for. that is why. the bible is not a book of bullsht, it makes really good points, we need only look beyond our lustful desires to see the points that are being made.
however, even for nonbelievers or readers, for people who choose not to read the book, that is also why sex should be waited on, for it is not a selfish act, but should be an act of love for your partner. it comes after you are both with each other for etrernity and are completely comfortable with each other