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Aww... That's so sad. =[
You can complain to me if you want.

And I know how you feel, Cassie. My grandfather died two years ago from cancer. It's hard to let go of someone that you love when they're close to death. I've been there. I just hope that your grandfather will go peacefully. That is the best way to go.

It may seem that it's almost impossible to get over a loved one's death. But one comes to see that their loved ones are in a much better place; one without death, one without strife, one of peace. Some call it Heaven; some call it Paradise. It doesn't matter what you call it though. I know that your grandfather will be looking down upon you when he leaves this world and won't want you to be sad about his death. Just cherish the time that you have and have had with him. Hold him in your memories. Although it may seem cliché, he will live on in your memories. You will always have him with you if you keep the memories of him with you.

And don't forget that being empathetic, even if in a large amount, is never a bad thing to be.

So many stages we humans go through to grieve . . .

Perhaps someday you'll write a book or a manga, and your loved ones - whether real or imagined - can live forever.

PM me if you'd like.

For some reason, this always makes me feel better.




And I can relate to how you feel, trust me. I have similar problems in my life. =/

*nods solemnly* I too know your pain, my great grandmother died of caner last summer. The pain only became real to me when I read the speech that was made at her grave.