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so my husband got home in june and things started off rocky and now our family is getting into our problems so to save my marriage i am being sent back home where im going to live on my own til my husband figures out what he wants and we can try to make it work again. alot of people think im pathetic because im still holding on and giving him a chance since he has made this very difficult but when you love someone and they dont cause you physical or mental distress or abuse and you really love them you will try to make it work, but i must say that when it comes to the point that you lose respect for that person or yourself then its time to move on. that is why im taking a break so that i dont lose my respect for him which i have already come so close to doing but he just got back from iraq and this is new to both of us so we need to figure out what to do and it starts by letting him unwind on his own first...i hope everything works out but im strongwilled so i know i can handle it no matter what. and for those who say that they will die with out the person they love...try having them tell you they dont need you and want you to leave and if the world doesnt end right then and there then you can find the strength to dust yourself off and move on. it will take time i know this but you will be ok.
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