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TenshiBara2
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Advice is Needed!
Ok everyone I know I am bother sometimes but I really need advice and I am not sure what to do so please help me!

Ok i dont know if everyone knows this so for those of you who dont you will now. I like this guy a lot. He is a great person and a great friend! We met each other a while back and every since then it was liked he was my "soul mate". Well I told him how I felt and then one day I went to his house and he bought me this expensive gold necklace for me to wear and when he gave it to me he was like this is to show you how much I love and care about you. So from there I have been hanging out with him and then a while after that something happened but I wont mention what exactly. This girl came over to see him from far away and she basically pushed me out of the picture and well yeah that night that she spent at his house (along with me and two other of our friends) he told me you know i still love you right? and I was like yeah I know you do and I love you to. So that passed and a couple of people that didnt need to get involved (minus our two friends who were with us that day) started saying stuff to him about me and all that. Which got on our nerves both ways. So I had to take care of my side of that and he had to take care of his side. Now that everyone is backing off we finally get to breath and go on this on our own. But....at 2:00 in the morning I went to his house to talk for a straight hour...out on his lawn of course and we settled most of everything. But what I dont get is what he is thinking....he told a friend of mine that "we are working on dating each other" and my friend replied "well when you know it just tell her how you feel from your heart and she will understand". This guy seems to be growing up a little; which is good. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. But I seriously dont know what is going on in his head. For instance this morning he barely talked to be and actually he totally agnored me and everything....I am not sure what I should do....so suggestions are wanted please my friends. For right now though I am going to back off and just not call him and barely speak to him....maybe if I do that he will be like "oh maybe I should give her a call or something" Well that is all for now so please post some advice because as of right now I am out of options.






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Chibi_Maru-chan
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comment Commented on: Sun Apr 30, 2006 @ 10:00am
the key to ALL relationships is COMMUNICATION, you don't talk to each other that is going to hurt the relationship, if he needs some space then give it to him, but don't flat out ignore him because your upset hes not paying attention to you. Talk to him ask him whats on his mind, tell him your concerned for him when he doesn't talk to you or acts a certain way. That is communicating.


comment Commented on: Thu May 18, 2006 @ 06:21pm
you knowhow i am i believe in honesty in any relationship i think this guy should be honest with u. you are a great person and i know that u will find true happiness in this cruel world and if anyone deserves it it is you by far take care



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