I think my dad is the main reason I don't want to be here any more. By not being here, I mean being anywhere else other than Sacramento. Of course, a large reason I want to go back to San Francisco is because of Bryce. But my dad is so annoying to me that I can't stand spending time with him.
For one thing, he's passive aggressive. If you're reading this journal and haven't read my previous journal about how much I hate passive aggressive people, I suggest you look it up. It should be on my other account: LittleShaherizad. If you have read it though, then you know how I feel about people being PA. So I'm not going to go into that.
Secondly, he can never ever be wrong. If someone disagrees with him he gets incredibly defensive. Even if that person has valid points and everyone else agrees with that person, if he doesn't then in his eyes they're completely wrong and nothing they say can sway him. I saw this first when he got mad at neechan. At first I thought that that was just a momentary occurrence, but unfortunately I was wrong. Every little disagreement he has with anyone is a big thing because he refuses to even consider the other person's point of view. This ties into number three.
He's liberal to the point of conservatism. Anyone who doesn't take a liberal point of view is an idiot. Of course, he takes this view with people who disagree with him in general, but it's most obvious when it involves people who disagree with him in terms of political or religious views. I suppose it's hypocritical of me to get annoyed for this because I do similar things, but I don't just immediately write the person off as an idiot. I don't talk down to them unless I think they're being completely unreasonable. He talks down to people no matter what.
I can't have a civil conversation with him anymore. He either thinks I'm criticizing him, that I'm wrong, or that he obviously knows better. He ignores or talks over my valid points even when we're agreeing on something. He's short with me, with everybody really, and just generally a d**k.
I don't want to have a dad who acts like a 13-year-old-girl.
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Hachikai
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