I guess im the a*****e of the day. Again.
You know, things never really work out for me. They do for other people though, which is what really burns me up. I dont even know why I try.
Oh wait, I dont.
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They don't work out for you because you admit you don't try. You don't try, no s**t they won't work out for you. You also have that choice of trying or not. There's also another choice. You can make things work out for you or you choose not to. Life isn't one of those things that come and go without complications as you know. But you can't let things slide, you have to do something about it. That's the case here. You want things to work out and when you want something, you're supposed to try and get it. If you're not going to try, what's the use of bitching about it?
Oh, sure, you probably hate me for saying that but whatever. Take control and use what's given to you. You shouldn't let anyone or anything keep you from things working out for you. Control and choices are big things when it comes to your issue. Trying is something that if you don't do it, your issues. You try, your issue. You have to use what's been given to you. And bitching about something that didn't work out for you because you choose not to control it isn't wise. Just try. Once. I mean really try, work hard, put your mind and soul to it. It doens't work out, shows tons of flaws that need to be either accounted for or stregnthen. Oh, no, I"m not trying to beat you down. Just consider this a little piece of my "get your head out of your a**" help.
And calling yourself the a*****e of the day isn't really smart. Putting yourself down is the worst kind of put-down and shows many issues with yourself. Improving your feelings of yourself and not letting stupid things that you do get to you is a step.
Just trying to help out and help hurts. Sorry if I sound mean, I'm just really trying to help ya.
Rave <3